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This guy stopped watching porn — and he wants you to know why. Gender activist Ran Gavrieli felt that most of the images he saw in porn encouraged negative, even violent, attitudes toward women, despite a recent wave of feminist porn. So he pulled the plug, and found that his personal sex life and private fantasies became much more fulfilling.
In his talk at TEDxJaffa, he advocates for physically and emotionally-safe sex, as well as erotica that shows a wider range of fulfilling sexual experiences — including the intimacy of human connection, laughter, and touch. Watch his talk here.
This is vaguely true in some cases, however, its important to remember that there is also degradation of men. It all depends on your own personal morals about what you find attractive. It is also important to remember that what you fantasize about does not necessarily and often in most cases doesn’t coordinate with what you find hot.